Brides (and Grooms) who Don’t Love the Spotlight

bride_hiding

Did you know half of the population considers themselves shy, and that 13 percent of the population has an extreme form of social anxiety called social phobia? For this reason, says IntimateWeddings, it’s safe to say that there are many brides and grooms who are terrified of getting married. It's not that they fear marrying the wrong person... the are just not happy about the thought of being center of attention! Some brides (and grooms) are shy of having all eyes upon them. Others are afraid … [Read more...]

A Musical Wedding Toast

If you or your fiance are musical (or just appreciate some good, fun music!) here is a group-effort wedding toast that is sure to be a hit! This is also a great idea for family and friends of the bride and groom, who are looking for a good way to praise the couple and entertain the guests all at the same time! … [Read more...]

Choosing your Groomsmen

Picking favorites is always a touchy thing, so when choosing your groomsmen you want to be careful not to bruise any egos. You've got your best buddies brothers, cousins, college roommates, and pals from elementary school.  They'd all like to be included in the wedding party, and some may even be hoping for the "best man" position. It's a delicate task, but here are some tips from the Knot to help you get it done! How Many? You can choose as many--or as few-- groomsmen as you like. The … [Read more...]

Grooming the Groom

With all the attention paid to the bride's attire, hair, makeup, and accessories, you might forget that someone else is sharing the spotlight, too. Don't let the groom look anything less than perfect himself! Here are some expert styling tips from InStyle Wedding, to help the groom look his best! Formal Shirt: A formal button-front shirt should be white or cream. No ruffles! Jacket: Single-breasted, single-button jackets are timeless for a good reason—they'll make his his waist look trim … [Read more...]

Questions to Ask Before you say “I DO”

girl-with-engagement-ring

When you approach a marriage, you must be prepared to give it your all, but you also need to be sure there are no major "red flags" that will eventually doom your union. When a couple works together to build a strong, loving, respectful relationship, they really can overcome mountains... but you need to have a solid foundation to build on. Here are a list of questions you can ask yourself to ascertain whether there are any lurking issues that need to be worked out before you say "I do." 1. … [Read more...]

Groom Style: Classic & Colorful

groom-20blue-20tie

So much attention is paid to the bridal gown, that we think it's time we give some attention to the guy’s attire. That's what Geoff White states on his Photography blog, and we agree with him!  This amazing San Francisco wedding photographer is a big fan of khaki suits for outdoor weddings, and also loves seeing a suit personalized with a cool tie. These grooms prove that you can be classy yet colorful at the same time. Cool and confident, in a sharp, well-cut suit, bright tie and … [Read more...]

Groom: How to tie a Bow Tie

groom-20tux-20black-20bowtie

You may not find many opportunities to wear a bow tie, in which case you bow-tying skill may be a bit rusty (or non-existent). It's not as hard as it seems, says the number one stop for wedding-related etiquette, the Knot. In a nutshell, tying a bow tie is just like tying your shoe laces. Here's a step-by-step guide (for photo references to help you along, click here). 1. Put the tie around your neck so that the ends hang down the front. End "A" (on your left) is longer than end "B". 2. … [Read more...]

Rituals in Marriage: An indication of your special bond

When I think about the word "romance" I tend to think about things like... a wedding day or a honeymoon... an unexpected love note, a surprise gift, or a special anniversary candle-lit dinner. What do these things have in common? They are all once-in-a-lifetime or even once-in-a-while events, and this is what seems to make them special. But does something need to be a novelty or a surprise to make it special and romantic? Karen Sherman, Ph.D., (www.drkarensherman.com),a practicing … [Read more...]

13 Things to Think About when Renting a Tux for your Wedding

There's something exciting about men wearing tuxedo's. As a little girl, I remember when my parents would get dressed up for a fancy occasion... my mother putting on a beautiful dress with matching heels, and my father donning his tuxedo, complete with cummerbund and bow tie. Then I knew it was really a special occasion! Maybe it's for this reason that some choose to don tuxes for their wedding festivities. If you plan to wear a one to your wedding, it's not something that should be left to … [Read more...]

Five Ways to Avoid Wedding Disaster

There are many ways to plan a wedding that you won't enjoy.  For example, your best friend says you MUST do the bouquet toss, although you think it's the silliest of customs. You want to cry as you cut the over-your-budget wedding cake you ordered to please your mom. Your guests are cold and wet after an unexpected shower at your outdoor ceremony... Don't let this happen to you!  From the Wedding Examiner, an LA-based creator and conductor of hundreds of civil and event weddings a year, … [Read more...]