Rituals in Marriage: An indication of your special bond

When I think about the word "romance" I tend to think about things like... a wedding day or a honeymoon... an unexpected love note, a surprise gift, or a special anniversary candle-lit dinner. What do these things have in common? They are all once-in-a-lifetime or even once-in-a-while events, and this is what seems to make them special. But does something need to be a novelty or a surprise to make it special and romantic? Karen Sherman, Ph.D., (www.drkarensherman.com),a practicing … [Read more...]

Your Wedding: Colors, community, connection!

The 2000 Dollar Budget Wedding blog is all about cutting back on expenses but making the most of your big day to celebrate the important things in life. I liked this post so much, I decided to just include the whole thing! It's called Staying Focused on What a Wedding is All About, and I think a reminder now and then is always good! I still get messages from The Knot, despite the fact that my wedding is over and they are trying to nudge me into The Nest. Here's today's depressing insight … [Read more...]

Are you lonely in your marriage?

Many single woman look forward to marriage as a time when they will never be alone again. According to Dr. Gail Saltz, "Most women I see tell me they are happy that they found someone special and are married because they would not want to be alone. What’s more curious, however, is how many women tell me that they really feel lonely IN their marriage." Single and lonely is bearable if you can look forward to a future with a loving spouse to keep you company. But married and lonely, well that … [Read more...]